- On my Facebook page I link to relevant articles every single day.
- The Emotionally Destructive Marriage Webinar by Leslie Vernick and Chris Moles
- The Confusion to Clarity website for help on covert abuse.
- Leslie Vernick’s YouTube channel with many helpful videos on this subject.
- Survivor Support for help dealing with grief over the many losses of abuse.
- The MEND Project website with helpful resources for emotional abuse survivors.
- The “Counseling with Patrick Doyle” YouTube channel with over 70 excellent videos on many issues related to counseling. My favorites:
Denial and How to Deal with It
Setting Boundaries in Relationships
Ten Signs You are a Victim or a Survivor
Other Resources by Topic
Biblical divorce resources for Christian women
Resources about women in ministry leadership
Resources for parenting kids with an emotionally abusive parent
Books that will help you live courageously
- My own book: Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage
- The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick
- Why Does He Do That? By Lundy Bancroft
- Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare by Shahida Arabi
- Foolproofing Your Life: How to Deal Effectively with the Impossible People in Your Life by Jan Silvious
- Safe People by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People by George Simon
- Character Disturbance: The Phenomenon of Our Age by George Simon
- The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond by Patricia Evans
- No More Christian Nice Girl: When Just Being Nice Instead of Good Hurts You, Your Family and Your Friends by Paul Coughlin and Jennifer D. Degler PhD
- The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner
- Divorce and Remarriage in the Church by David Instone-Brewer
- The Equality Workbook: Freedom in Christ from the Oppression of Patriarchy by Helga and Bob Edwards (both BRE, BA, MSW)
- Untwisting Scripture that was Used to Tie You Up, Gag you, and Tangle Your Mind by Rebecca Davis
