- On my Facebook page I link to relevant articles every single day.
- The Emotionally Destructive Marriage Webinar by Leslie Vernick and Chris Moles
- The Confusion to Clarity website for help on covert abuse.
- Leslie Vernick’s YouTube channel with many helpful videos on this subject.
- The MEND Project website with helpful resources for emotional abuse survivors.
- The “Counseling with Patrick Doyle” YouTube channel with over 70 excellent videos on many issues related to counseling. My favorites:
Denial and How to Deal with It
Setting Boundaries in Relationships
Ten Signs You are a Victim or a Survivor
Books that will help you live courageously
- My own book: Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage
- The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick
- Healing From Hidden Abuse by Shannon Thomas
- Why Does He Do That? By Lundy Bancroft
- Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare by Shahida Arabi
- Foolproofing Your Life: How to Deal Effectively with the Impossible People in Your Life by Jan Silvious
- Safe People by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People by George Simon
- Character Disturbance: The Phenomenon of Our Age by George Simon
- The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond by Patricia Evans
- No More Christian Nice Girl: When Just Being Nice Instead of Good Hurts You, Your Family and Your Friends by Paul Coughlin and Jennifer D. Degler PhD
- The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner
- Divorce and Remarriage in the Church by David Instone-Brewer
- The Equality Workbook: Freedom in Christ from the Oppression of Patriarchy by Helga and Bob Edwards (both BRE, BA, MSW)
- Untwisting Scripture that was Used to Tie You Up, Gag you, and Tangle Your Mind by Rebecca Davis